maine uskoo chhooaaa...

One more weekend passedby, but this could be the coldest one ever. Going on, this would be a norm. Temperatures dropping to dead zero. Had to put on atleast two layers of my available clothing to go out for my supper. I could feel the frigidness on my face. huhh.. biting cold

Most of the hours, was glued onto my laptop, watching/rewatching movies. And yeah, thankfully came online at the right time, when Indians were rollicking at KSCA. Buoy.. watta game. kudos to Dravid and his men in blue. Hope the performance bar doesnt lower as they go down south to Chennai. Interestingly, it is one of the favourites of tendlya and Dravid. Hopefully, India would take the lead in the series.

Staying alone, can bring in a lots of time for your own self. Esp., on weekends, I could feel the hours in a day :). With not many people to chat and my increasing download history, prompted me to take a look at the current affairs back home. Most staggering one was a question from Chief Mentor of Singapore (... Lee) to Mr. NRN, if he could step into politics. Seriously, I am still trying to figure out what did Mr. NRN present in his talk to Mr. Lee, that he drew a parallel between corporate governance and political leadership. Hope this aint a gimmick to counter Gowdzzz.

Down South, the most prolific female actor of South India, has been torn apart for her comments on Safe Sex (understood as Pre-marital Sex) by our dear citizens. She being just another person in the Billion-plus lot could have aired her views on the topic. Our "bharathiya-sanskruthi-rakshana-parishad" had to come to the spotlight, as they could not get a prime-slot in any of the TV channels. Shuru karloo dharnaa, protests, burn some old clothes etc., Pity that, she was made to surrender. Not even a single person, took to her support. Even if they did, it was withdrawn in the same breath.

I am not at all trying to convey that, any individual irrespective of their gender, should take their saath-pheree losing their virginity. I am just trying to say that, this should be applied in unison for both the s**. We talk about, equality and we are being very very unfair when it comes to female religion. People take verses of the great Manu from his Manu Srimati,

205. He who gives (a damsel in marriage), having first openly declared her blemishes, whether she be insane, or afflicted with leprosy, or have lost her virginity, is not liable to punishment."

(If a father (usually gives his Daughter in marriage) lets the groom's party know that his daughter has some blemishes or mental illness or lost her virginity way before hand, before the groom ties the knot, STILL NO GIRL can be punished for it may not be her own fault or the fault of the family )

"72. Though (a man) may have accepted a damsel in due form, he may abandon (her if she be) blemished, diseased, or deflowered, and (if she have been) given with fraud."

(If the family or parent hides those things (all the negative things) and try to push a daughter into a marriage with a groom, then it is considered to be "FRAUD"..in that case it is punishable.)

True to the core, when MEN were the real protectors of the fairer sex. Dharma Shastra says the same. How many Men follow this? But, this doesnt speak in the same wavelength, when it comes to MEN. Manu, was an individual, we cannot accept his writings as hard rules. I am pretty sure, if Manu, had dreampt of the women of 21st century, he wouldnt have put this verse. We should also look into the context when this was scripted.

All said and done, me being an ardent follower of hinduism, believe either of the gender should believe in their own-self and choose their partner for their lifetime and lead their life delivering all their karma's, for which they have been brought into this tinsel world. Submissiveness amongst the couple should be mutual.

Ram(atma or spirit) should always accompany his Sita(Chitta-integral part of spirit) with the help of Hanuman(Vayuputra) and Lakshman(discriminatory aspect of your mind) winning over the frequent perversion acts of Ravan(your ego)

Have a wonderful week ahead
adios

PS : Personal Individual views aired in a public forum. I am only talking about MY life. This blog does not hold any accountability to public :)